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Parents are the healers
in the home - through
connection, co-regulation,
and repair, they create
the love and safety that
helps their children thrive.

Are you tired of feeling like your body is always on edge—tight shoulders, a racing heart, and the constant weight of worry? The stress of parenting can take a serious toll on you. 

Stuck in endless battles, constant worry, and never feeling heard? You’re not alone. 

With online therapy across California, I help parents break free from the chaos and step into the calm, confident leadership your family craves.

A warm and compassionate psychotherapist with white hair and glasses sits at her desk, smiling in front of a bamboo screen. A nest with three light blue eggs behind her symbolizes safety, growth, and new beginnings. She welcomes families seeking online family therapy in California, offering trusted support, brain-based strategies, and a clear path to healing, reconnection, and lasting change.

I’m here to help you break the cycle. 

  • You wake up each day with a tight knot in your stomach, dreading the chaos that might come, knowing you're about to fight another battle just to get through breakfast.

  • Your shoulders feel like they’re permanently hunched, as if you’re always bracing for the next emotional storm—whether it's a meltdown, an argument, or just the overwhelming silence.

  • You lie awake at night with your mind spinning—should I have said something differently today? Why didn’t I handle that better? Your body is on high alert, and sleep feels like a distant dream.

  • Every time you try to connect with your child, there's an invisible wall between you—your frustration and their resistance make your skin feel hot, like the emotional pressure might explode at any second.

  • You feel drained, not just from the endless to-do list, but because every interaction with your child feels like it takes a part of you. Your energy feels depleted, and the emotional exhaustion seeps into your bones.

  • You’re walking on eggshells, terrified that one wrong move will set off a meltdown. Your body is tense, your breath shallow, always on alert, constantly wondering if today will be the day everything falls apart.

Together, we’ll create the calm, connection, and confidence your family needs to heal and thrive.



I’m Here to Hold Your Hand Every Step of the Way

A mature therapist gently cups her hands around the folded hands of a parent during a therapy session, offering warmth and steady support. The image reflects the emotional safety and compassion at the heart of parent therapy, where overwhelmed parents are met with comfort, understanding, and a path toward healing connection with their children.Ready to bring peace to your house and your family back together?

Then take my hand. I’m an expert in family therapy and I work with the whole family, including extended family and support systems. A healthy family identity will flow from developing closer family ties. As your confidence increases, challenging episodes will decrease.

Together we’ll work to calm the big emotions, improve communication, create connections and safety in relationships, and solve family problems. You can become the healer in your home.

Serving all communities online throughout California.




Difficult Situations With Children:

  • Trauma
  • 2e/Twice-exceptional
  • Gifted
  • ADHD
  • Emotional regulation

Parenting/Adult Concerns:

  • Self-regulation
  • Anxiety
  • Insecurity
  • Guilt/shame
  • Overwhelm/stress

You deserve support: Contact Abby

 

📞 Book your free discovery call 

🗓️ Schedule your free, 60-minute phone consultation

🔐 Set up your secure client portal

🧭 Choose a weekly session time

💻 Begin online therapy from home

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What Others Are Saying

" It is a true privilege to recommend Abigail. She is a remarkably skilled and compassionate clinician whose warmth, clarity, and depth of experience make her an invaluable resource for families. Abigail brings decades of experience working with children and a strong focus on empowering the most pivotal agents of change-the parents. Her thoughtful, evidence-based approach is grounded in a deep understanding of family systems and developmental needs, and she consistently integrates the latest clinical insights into her work. Abigail is both deeply dedicated to her clients and continually growing in her craft, a combination that inspires trust and yields real, lasting results. I am always confident referring families to her, knowing they will receive care that is not only highly competent but genuinely supportive and effective. "

Benjamin Johnides
Oak Lane Psychology Professional Corporation

"Abby is a truly gifted family therapist with decades of experience helping children and families through their darkest days, and the courage to bring both her humanity and expertise to her sessions everyday. I got to know Abby over the course of a full-year intensive training program for helpers who support parents, and she has since become one of the colleagues that I trust most to go to for professional consultation about my own work with clients. The amazing work she is doing to help parents become the healers in their families is inspiring, and so needed in the world. Her demonstrated lifelong commitment and specialization in teaching parents new ways of understanding their children's most challenging behaviors, combined with her sensitivity and awareness that parents of children with big behaviors are seeking practical tools and strategies that actually work, make her one of my favorite clinicians to refer clients to. You and your family are in good hands with Abby!"

Gina Kanagawa, LMFT, ATR
Being With Advanced Practitioner

"Abby is an expert in strengthening family identity, fostering connections, enhancing communication, and cultivating a thriving family culture. With her extensive experience, she equips parents with effective tools to address challenging behaviors in their children, empowering them to navigate parenthood with confidence and love. I highly recommend connecting with a heart-centered practitioner who is passionate about seeing positive results."

Brandon Drake
HealthyDataGuy

"Abby is a natural at her job, she draws from a wealth of clinical and personal experience, and she continues to educate herself through ongoing training and certification. She takes a whole-family approach that is evidence-based, empowering and actually works! If you are a parent and wanting to make family life with your highly sensitive or gifted child more harmonious, call Abby. She knows her stuff and will equip you with the tools necessary to create a happier, healthier home."

Natalie Moore, LMFT
Space for Growth Therapy Pasadena

"Abby cares deeply about ensuring the foundations for relationships between parents and kids is strong and meets fundamental needs that are oft looked over. She has a kind and intelligent methodology that is tangible, that honors how humans are built, from the ground up. She is a lifelong learner, with a wide swath of skills, that addresses ways of being close to kids, including kids that have extraordinary needs of one kind or another. I highly encourage working with her."

Petar Sardelich LMFT/PT/MAC

"You must be such an incredibly effective healer-especially boldened with how introspective, beautifully reflective, and committed to lifelong healing you are-even when it can be painful. 

Proud of you and the mended gaps you've manifested through this work, contributing to the increased levels of bliss and understanding within your direct family, as well as the quality of service you're able to consciously and subconsciously provide for your clients."

Amanda Bracaj
Addictions and Mental Health Counselor

"Abby has the Three C's: compassion, curiosity, and commitment. She is a highly experienced, knowledgeable, and insightful family therapist who offers her clients the highest standards of practice. With her decades of experience in community, private practice, and in-home settings, she brings a unique set of skills and perspectives to her clients. Additionally, Abi integrates her knowledge of affective neurobiology into her work with kids and families in a beautiful way. If you're seeking a wonderful family therapist, she's the one!"

Jason Wildman, LCSW, SEP

Abby offers a compassionate and transformative approach for families who find that traditional parenting methods are no longer effective—and may even be creating distance between them and their children. Drawing on her deep knowledge of neuroscience, she helps parents understand the brain-based systems behind emotional dysregulation, empowering them with insight and curiosity, rather than blame and shame.

More than just offering strategies, Abby works hard to understand each family’s unique dynamics and relational systems. She guides parents in building emotionally safe, connected relationships with their children, tailored to their specific needs and histories. Her work supports not only parenting challenges, but also healing from attachment wounds, early childhood trauma, co-parenting difficulties, and the unique needs of post-adoption families.

As a professional working in the same field, I wouldn’t hesitate to refer families to Abby. If you're a parent feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or simply wanting a more connected path forward, I highly recommend her. She is warm, insightful, and brings a truly empathic presence to the families she supports.

Denise Duval, LMFT

Become the Healer in Your Home

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